Give me a path to follow....

I think that everyone works better if you know where you are going. A clear defined path/goal/dream etc..... I have goals for my personal life, work, Spiritual, health. Etc.... What I don't see around me is people talking about theirs. This is not new it seems to be over the last 5-7 years People don't say I will do this or that but that maybe or i might do this. Can we just make our YES yes and NO no. Please.